Day 18 in ICU, in a few more days he'll get a new feeding tube.
We never think twice about how we feel but for a traumatic brain injury, the struggle is real.
Every day that goes by is not constant improving, his brain shorts out and keeps him from moving.
We see him nodding and even get a yes but his best medicine is lots of rest.
We know he's in there but right now he's not the same, we ask that you keep him in your prayers.
A quick recap of what a miracle looks like.
1. Aug 4th. Day 1. My brother was a victim of a freak accident. A tree fell on him on his way to work. Prognosis... Not sure he'll make it. Severe frontal lobe damage. Brain bleed/ pressure, broken pelvis, broken femur, torn iris, 2 blood clots.
2. Aug. 15. Day 11. Neurologist states, "He's not going to progress much more than this. We suggest palliative care to help you with options moving forward. "
3. Aug. 15 sent message to one of his friends that we were told to consider his quality of life and let him go.
Aug. 17th. Day 13 Michael's friend came to visit and prayed fervently for him after witnessing a nurse telling us we would have 24 hours to consider hospice. Our sister drives home from Alabama to help prepare for his passing.
4. Aug. 18th. Less than 24 hrs later....
HE OPENED HIS EYES AND SAYS, "HI".
After 3 weeks in ICU, he is moved to step down unit.
5. Aug. 27th Day 23. I gave him a spoon to feed himself and he does.
6. I was giving him water with a spoon but decided it was time to see what else he could do. He drinks water from a cup pretty good for a man that wasn't supposed to make it out of a vegetative state.
He still cannot speak or stand or walk and his vision is still undetermined . He has a very long road ahead but the progress he has made has escalated our faith ten fold.
Traumatic brain injury is a roller coaster of the mind and body. I have posted highlights of his breakthrough progress but everyday is different. Yesterday was very hard on him and you can see it in his face without him saying a word.
He can't always speak but we are excited when he does.
Statistically, it would take 6 months to 2 years to regain speech but he gives us more than we expected. Now if I could just capture him when he says a complete sentence.
Thanks for following his story. I'll be working on a " pre accident story " to post soon.
Update 11
NewAgeRipper's sister today .....
35 days in the hospital and 21 days ago we were planning his funeral.
Michael has shown a plethora of accomplishments today.
Trach in, trach out.
1st video are is first words without it.
2nd video, he's on day 3 of opening his protein drink himself (and I struggle with them).
3rd video I was stirring his meds and I guess I didn't stir good enough for him
4th video he drinks as he did pre accident.
5th video he's like, " WTH! Is that all I get". Then he mocks me.
6th video HE CAN SEE COLOR
These are breakthroughs. Just a highlight of our day. He can't process a conversation. He can't sit up without therapist but he's getting there much faster than we anticipated.
He's released from palliative care.![]()
Now look at him go.
He can see more colors.
He read the letters on his tray. BLD
He poured from his own pitcher.
He sits on his own
He stands.
The doctor felt that the surgery is his best option for a better recovery.
He's come a long way, especially since he had a craniotomy yesterday.
He wrote his first word and his breakfast came with a smile, he even threw a ball and that took him awhile.
He gave us a thumbs up and put on his mask,
and came out of surgery better than we could ever ask.
They opened him up and put a titanium plate in his head, so he'll be spending more time in bed.
His head is healing and so is his brain, he has to wear these fancy gloves since he was pulling at the drains.